Coming out

Turrick · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 1:47 PM

for past several years i began taking invega to help my mental health. during this time i realize that there is more to me than being straight. the problem is that my cousin that i have known for years (since i was young is an old school hard Christian., her kids keep her away from them at arm’s length at time (yeah that bad), they are around my age as jared is same age as me but technically generation apart(me and his mother are in the same generation). As i improve mentally i looked back at the men and women i encounter that influenced me or i admired. George who passed away a while ago told me about sex and he was a gay man, he was a best mentor i had at the time. i notice i loved men and women equally but more than friendship lvl case in point fred oh this bear was a hunk even though a former friend got to him before me she dumped him because of her own reason(i will not say because of x rated nature), i was talking to trans woman but my ex was mad i was doing that so mad she made me feel like crap so i stopped then moved back talking to straight women( i havent made my intentions known to fred about my feeling to him btw even to this day). i moved to my own place for about several years now and a guy name josh oh man he is cutie imo but i respect him but i will let him know my feeling towards him tomorrow as his name is josh, he always checks up on me and my wellbeing (he is such a great friend, make me giggle like a schoolgirl every time i think of him lol). so, i am coming out as bi and my preference is mostly women but given the chance i will certain will date a guy

Solace · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 2:13 PM

Originally Posted by Turrick

for past several years i began taking invega to help my mental health. during this time i realize that there is more to me than being straight. the problem is that my cousin that i have known for years (since i was young is an old school hard Christian., her kids keep her away from them at arm’s length at time (yeah that bad), they are around my age as jared is same age as me but technically generation apart(me and his mother are in the same generation). As i improve mentally i looked back at the men and women i encounter that influenced me or i admired. George who passed away a while ago told me about sex and he was a gay man, he was a best mentor i had at the time. i notice i loved men and women equally but more than friendship lvl case in point fred oh this bear was a hunk even though a former friend got to him before me she dumped him because of her own reason(i will not say because of x rated nature), i was talking to trans woman but my ex was mad i was doing that so mad she made me feel like crap so i stopped then moved back talking to straight women( i havent made my intentions known to fred about my feeling to him btw even to this day). i moved to my own place for about several years now and a guy name josh oh man he is cutie imo but i respect him but i will let him know my feeling towards him tomorrow as his name is josh, he always checks up on me and my wellbeing (he is such a great friend, make me giggle like a schoolgirl every time i think of him lol). so, i am coming out as bi and my preference is mostly women but given the chance i will certain will date a guy

Congratulations on coming out! Happy Pride Month!

Draco · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 2:17 PM

Originally Posted by Turrick

for past several years i began taking invega to help my mental health. during this time i realize that there is more to me than being straight. the problem is that my cousin that i have known for years (since i was young is an old school hard Christian., her kids keep her away from them at arm’s length at time (yeah that bad), they are around my age as jared is same age as me but technically generation apart(me and his mother are in the same generation). As i improve mentally i looked back at the men and women i encounter that influenced me or i admired. George who passed away a while ago told me about sex and he was a gay man, he was a best mentor i had at the time. i notice i loved men and women equally but more than friendship lvl case in point fred oh this bear was a hunk even though a former friend got to him before me she dumped him because of her own reason(i will not say because of x rated nature), i was talking to trans woman but my ex was mad i was doing that so mad she made me feel like crap so i stopped then moved back talking to straight women( i havent made my intentions known to fred about my feeling to him btw even to this day). i moved to my own place for about several years now and a guy name josh oh man he is cutie imo but i respect him but i will let him know my feeling towards him tomorrow as his name is josh, he always checks up on me and my wellbeing (he is such a great friend, make me giggle like a schoolgirl every time i think of him lol). so, i am coming out as bi and my preference is mostly women but given the chance i will certain will date a guy

Good for you - do whatever makes you happy (except probably if it hurts someone else) and do it proudly.

Silek · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 2:19 PM

Turrick my friend, getting right with yourself and being open to the clarity of what you want, puts you much further ahead than most. I hope you see it as a gift you deserved to give yourself, and will continue to do so throughout your years.

Bridger · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 2:31 PM

Enjoy the rest of your life as the person you really are.

Scarlett · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 2:38 PM

Sharing this to the group is amazing! You be you

Chris Wilkinson · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 3:05 PM

It's great to hear that you've been able to learn that about yourself and that you've shared that with the group. It's always important to be true to yourself

Seetherius · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 3:05 PM

Strong. Don't give anybody power/control over you to feel bad. You are the master of your own life and be always proud of who you are. You deserve to be happy like anybody else.

WelshAvenger · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 3:06 PM

Congratulations! Everybody deserves to be happy with who they are. I'm glad that your journey is taking you in that direction.

Sunfire · Posted Thu 03 Jun, 2021 6:27 PM

Congratulations! I hope everything works out for you the way you want so you can be happy with the way you are!

MonsterOmen · Posted Wed 16 Jun, 2021 2:42 AM

You are not the only bi member of this group and a guy at that. So you are not alone I too am bi so welcome out of the closet. Have some coffee and a little cake .

Happy Pride month Mate.

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